Couples Therapy in Maryland and Washington, D.C.

Stop Managing the Conflict. Start Rebuilding the Connection.

You’re tired of the circular arguments that lead nowhere. You’ve become high-functioning roommates—efficient at logistics but disconnected emotionally. Whether you are navigating the aftermath of a betrayal or the chronic exhaustion of a relationship that feels like a second job, you need more than just a mediator.

I provide strategic, system-focused therapy for couples navigating disconnection and neurodivergence. I specialize in the ADHD-Impacted Marriage, where I understand that when brains work differently, "standard" communication exercises usually fail. We don’t just talk about the friction; we identify the dopamine-driven patterns and executive function gaps that are actually fueling your resentment.

We will dismantle the "Parent-Child" dynamic and replace it with a roadmap built on equity, clarity, and genuine partnership. It’s time to stop litigating your partner’s flaws and start mastering your relationship.

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LGBTQ+ affirming couples' therapy

At Bring Out the Joy Counseling Services, we believe every relationship deserves to be seen and honored without reservation. Our affirming couples therapy is a space where you and your partner can show up fully and authentically, free from judgment, heteronormative assumptions, or the exhausting labor of having to educate your therapist about your identity. We understand the unique complexities LGBTQ+ couples navigate—from minority stress and family rejection to the beauty of building "chosen family" and non-conventional partnership structures. Whether you are addressing communication hurdles, intimacy, or identity shifts within the relationship, our work is grounded in the richness of your specific experience. You should never have to shrink who you are to receive high-quality clinical care—and in this space, you will never be asked to. 

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Infidelity and betrayal trauma recovery

Discovering a partner's infidelity does not just break your heart — it breaks your reality, and the pain you are carrying deserves to be taken seriously. At Bring Out the Joy Counseling Services, we work with betrayed partners, partners who caused harm, and couples who are not yet sure what they want — because healing rarely travels in a straight line and neither does the decision about whether to stay or go. We do not come into this work with an agenda for your relationship. We come with clinical expertise, radical honesty, and the deep conviction that whatever you decide, you deserve to make that decision from a place of clarity, safety, and genuine self-understanding rather than from the chaos of unprocessed pain. What happened to you was real. What you are feeling is valid. And whether your path leads toward rebuilding together or healing separately, we are honored to walk alongside you through every honest and difficult step of that process. Reach out today to schedule your complimentary 15-minute consultation with Aaron — because you deserve support that meets the full weight of what you are carrying.

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Polyamorous and non-traditional relationship structures

At Bring Out the Joy Counseling Services, we recognize that love does not follow a single script—and neither should your therapy. Whether you are navigating polyamory, open partnerships, relationship anarchy, or a throuple, this is a space where your structure is treated with the same clinical seriousness and respect as any other. We understand the unique dynamics of non-traditional relationships—from managing jealousy and renegotiating agreements to navigating communication between partners and metamours. We do not pathologize your choices or bring a mononormative lens to work that requires nuance and informed care. Instead, we bring genuine competence and a commitment to helping you build the communication skills and emotional tools needed to make your partnership intentional, ethical, and fulfilling. Whatever your relationship looks like, it deserves real support.