Couples Therapy in Maryland and Washington, D.C.

Rebuilding Connection, Trust, and Understanding

Every relationship goes through seasons of change. Even the strongest couples can feel distant, misunderstood, or caught in patterns of conflict that seem impossible to break. The good news is—you don’t have to stay there.

At Bring Out the Joy Counseling Services, we offer a supportive space to rebuild trust, strengthen communication, and restore emotional closeness. Whether you’re navigating communication breakdowns, betrayal, loss of intimacy, or the stress of everyday life, therapy provides a safe and neutral setting to begin healing together.

Through approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)and trauma-informed relationship counseling, partners learn to recognize the patterns that create disconnection and practice new ways to listen, respond, and repair.

Couples who engage in this process often rediscover the foundation of respect, empathy, and love that first brought them together—allowing their relationship to become stronger, more secure, and more fulfilling.

If your relationship feels strained or needs renewal, this is a space to begin the journey toward deeper connection and lasting joy—together.

Discernment Counseling

Clarity Before Commitment—or Separation

You don’t have to make a life-changing decision in the middle of confusion.
If you and your partner are standing at a crossroads—one of you thinking about leaving and the other wanting to hold on—discernment counseling offers a calm, guided space to sort through the uncertainty.

Unlike traditional couples therapy, this process isn’t about fixing the relationship right away. It’s about helping you both understand what’s happened, what’s still possible, and what each of you truly wants next.

During our time together, you’ll have the chance to:

  • Share your story without blame or pressure

  • Understand the patterns that brought you here

  • Explore what healing, growth, or separation might look like

  • Gain the clarity and confidence to make your next step—together or apart—with peace instead of regret

You’ll meet both together and individually, allowing space for honesty and reflection. Most couples find that just slowing down to understand can bring unexpected compassion and relief.

At Bring Out the Joy Counseling Services, discernment counseling is about honoring your story and helping you move forward with integrity, respect, and emotional clarity—whatever path you choose.

Because sometimes, joy begins not with a decision to stay or leave—but with the courage to see clearly.

8-Week Couples Counseling Series: Healing After Betrayal or Identity Shifts

Relationships are meant to be places of safety, connection, and love. When infidelity or questions of identity and attraction arise, it can feel overwhelming, isolating, and uncertain.

This eight-week series creates space for partners to heal, rebuild, and clarify their path forward. Whether working to restore trust after betrayal or navigating the impact of same-sex attraction within marriage, each session supports honest dialogue, emotional safety, and renewed understanding.

Over eight weeks, couples are guided through a process of:

  • Understanding the Impact – Making room for each partner to share and process feelings of grief, betrayal, shame, or confusion.

  • Rebuilding Emotional Safety – Re-establishing trust through openness, healthy boundaries, and consistent communication.

  • Exploring Identity & Values – Addressing questions of attraction, authenticity, and the meaning of commitment in the relationship.

  • Reconnecting Intimately – Restoring emotional and physical closeness at a pace that feels safe.

  • Clarifying the Future – Determining together whether to reconcile, redefine, or release the relationship with honesty and respect.


This series offers a structured yet flexible path for couples seeking healing, clarity, and renewed connection after deep relational pain.